Rose and Cinnamon Infused Honey: A Simple Love Spell You Can Make at Home

Love spells have been among the most coveted spells since the dawn of time, along with curses. Funny how we either want to make people love us or punish them when they don't. With Valentine's Day and Lupercalia right around the corner, I felt this was the perfect time to introduce another love potion. Last year I shared a Chocolate & Rose Love Potion that could be sipped solo or with a lover. This year's love potion is a little more subtle, featuring a rose-and-cinnamon-infused honey that can be added to coffee, tea, incense, candle dressings, and just about any spell to sweeten the deal with love and passion. Remember, love spells can be tricky. I firmly believe love spells can only work on existing feelings and that they cannot force someone to love you. Needless to say, I never support using this potion without their consent, not to mention it's illegal in most places to tamper with someone's food without their knowledge. Relationships built on a lie will not survive long.

What You'll Need

• 1 cup honey
• 2-3 tablespoons dried rose petals
• 1 cinnamon stick or 1 tsp ground cinnamon
• Saucepan
• Fine-mesh strainer or cheesecloth
• Funnel
• Glass storage bottle

What to Do

Begin by cleansing your space and awakening your herbs using your preferred method. I chose to cleanse the space with rose incense which removes negativity and leaves behind uplifting, loving energies and warmed the herbs and spices in my hand while asking them for their assistance. When ready sterilize your glass bottle, lid, and a saucepan to prevent potential bacterial growth. While honey is naturally anti-bacterial, warming it and adding herbs and spices can reduce these properties.

Combine honey, rose petals, and cinnamon in the saucepan and heat on low heat until a thin syrup forms (2-3 minutes), stirring clockwise while saying, "Golden honey to sweeten and red roses for love. Cinnamon for passion and to bring blessings from above. Draw love and friendship to me. So I will it, so it is." Visualize the liquid filling with a soft red and pink light.

Remove the saucepan from the heat, continuing to stir until the liquid slightly cools and turns a dark red color, about 5 minutes. Pour the liquid through a fine-mesh strainer or cheesecloth and funnel it into your dry, sterilized jar. The remaining honey-covered rose petals and cinnamon can be buried near your front door to attract love, left as an offering to love deities, or burned as incense. Honey and dried herbs make excellent incense. Allow the infusion to cool completely to room temperature before sealing. Store for up to 1 year in a cool, dark place. 

Whenever your life needs a little extra love, add this infused honey to your spells and recipes, stirring clockwise to draw love to you. 

Why You Did It

Understanding the why's of a spell are just as important as performing it. It helps you understand the process so you can modify the spell or ritual to suit your needs and helps guide you to write your own. It's my intention that by providing these explanations, you can build a better understanding of how spells are written and executed so you can modify and build your own spells (the goal of my Spellcrafting Series). 

This ritual begins with combining honey, rose, and cinnamon. Honey has long been associated with love and beauty, its medicinal properties being used to treat skin blemishes and scars and even preserve bodies. It is sacred to Aphrodite, the Greek goddess of love and beauty, and was often left as an offering to her or used in spells and glamours to attract love and ensure youth. Because it's naturally sticky, it can be used to hold things together, particularly relationships, solidifying marriages and friendships alike. Its sweetness lends to its power to sweeten spells, especially emotions, promoting love in the process. As such, it provides the perfect base for this simple love potion.

Red roses, much like honey, are also deeply associated with love. It too is associated with Aphrodite and has long been used in love, lust, and romance spells. Cinnamon, which corresponds with the element Fire, is a natural aphrodisiac, increasing sexual desire, lust, and passion.

Finally, the mixture is always stirred clockwise, which is associated with drawing something toward you and visualized as filling with pink and red light, the colors of love, passion, and friendship.

Wish to break this spell? This infusion can be safely buried or left as an offering inside or out, instead of being used in love spells should you wish to use it for a different purpose. If you have used this on someone else, with their consent of course, declare the bond broken and/or allow the love to fizzle on its own. If the bond is particularly strong, you can perform a chord-cutting ritual.

Remember to record this ritual on your ritual/spell worksheet or in your Book of Shadows for reference later.

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Here's to wishing everyone a passionate Lupercalia, even if it is just with yourself. I think the world could use a little more love right now, don't you?

Interested in learning more about love spells? Below are some resources to get you started.

Rose & Chocolate Love Potion

Strawberry Freezer Jam Love Spell

DIY Self Love Witch Ball

A Guide to Protection, Cleansing, Abundance, Prosperity, and Love Spells

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Sour Jar for Reproductive Freedom

If I am being completely honest, the last couple of weeks have been extremely difficult. I feel like every day the news gets worse and I am deeply concerned. I've spent a lot of time purposely distracting myself with work, exercise, and video games while I attempt to process. I am angry, hurt, and, honestly, scared. The most recent news includes the leak of the draft to overturn Roe vs Wade by the Supreme Court. No matter your views on abortion, overturning Roe vs Wade will have cataclysmic consequences in the United States, of which includes the loss of our right to privacy. I strongly support our right to choose what is best for ourselves without government interference. I am also a firm believer in the use of baneful magic to fight social injustices and as such thought this was the perfect time to pull out the big guns, magically speaking.

Since the full moon eclipse, whose chaotic energies are still going strong, I have been putting together a series of four sour jars for reproductive freedom, one for each of the Supreme Court justices who signed the draft to overturn Roe vs Wade after lying to the public in order to be confirmed. This spell is best performed during the waning or dark moon and requires constant attention until the draft goes public...if it ever makes it that far. My hope is this spell, along with others and public outcry, will help stop it dead in its tracks.

Please note that I do not believe in the Rule of Three nor am I a love and light witch. Decolonizing witchcraft includes understanding the value of baneful magic as a tool against oppression. If baneful magic is not something you are into, simply move along and find other ways to fight for reproductive freedom.

What You'll Need

• Paper
• Pen
• Knife
• Lemon
• Cayenne Pepper, Red Chili Flakes, or Chili Powder
• Poppy Seeds
• Five Whole Cloves
• Twine or Black Yarn
• Jar with Lid
• Vinegar
• Three Nails or Pins
• Spanish Moss (optional)
• Wasp or Wasp Nest (optional)
• Onyx (optional)
• Black Sealing Wax, Black Yarn, or Twine
  
  

What to Do

Before you begin this spell, cleanse and consecrate your space using your preferred method. I also encourage you to set up general protections to ensure the spell does not inadvertently cause you undue harm.

Begin by writing the full name and birthday (if you have it) of the person you wish to bind and curse. I went with Clarence Thomas (June 23, 1948), Neil Gorsuch (August 29, 1967), Brett Kavanaugh (February 12, 1965), and Amy Coney Barrett (January 28, 1972). If you are cursing more than one person, make a separate jar for each. 

Fold the paper several times, making sure to fold it away from you. Cut a slit on top of the lemon and place the folded paper into it. Cover with cayenne pepper, red chili flakes, or chili powder and poppy seeds. Poke nine cloves into the lemon and wrap the entire lemon closed with twine or black yarn five times. As you wrap the lemon say, "I bind you, [insert name], from taking action against reproductive freedom. May you be unable to decide and your discussions are fraught with discord. May your life be full of strife until this bill is dead." 

Place the lemon in the jar and cover it with vinegar. Add the three nails or pins, Spanish moss, wasp or wasp nest, and onyx to the vinegar and seal. If using wax, melt the wax and pour it over the lid. If using yarn or twine, warp the jar five times while repeating the same mantra as before. Shake the jar vigorously, filling it with your rage and discontent. Visualize the target being filled with confusion, strife, conflict, and the inability to take action against reproductive freedom. Place it in a dark spot, away from prying eyes. Shake daily, recharging the jar with your intent, until a verdict is reached.

After the initial construction of the jar is complete, perform a cleansing ritual to remove any residual negativity from yourself. I suggest showering after this particular spell and using an uplifting smelling soap, such as grapefruit or rose. Smoke-cleanse your work area with an uplifting and banishing incense such as rosemary.

When you are satisfied with the results of this spell, dispose of the sealed jar in the trash.

Why You Did It

Understanding the why's of a spell are just as important as performing it. It helps you understand the process so you can modify the spell or ritual to suit your needs and helps guide you to write your own. It's my intention that by providing these explanations, you can build a better understanding of how spells are written and executed so you can modify and build your own spells (the goal of my Spellcraft Series). 

For this spell, we used a number of sour and unpleasant ingredients to bring unpleasantness to our target's life. The first thing we did is write the name and birth date of our spell's target on a piece of paper. This acts as the "tag" for the spell. Just as a gift tag makes a present for you, a spell tag designates who the spell is intended for. This way you don't unintentionally harm someone else. By folding away from you, you are sending the energy out away from you. This acts is both protective and activating, directing the energy into the universe instead of toward you. Banishing and binding energies as sent away (folded out) while abundance and prosperity energies are drawn in (folded toward you).

The tag is placed in a lemon to sour the life of the recipient. Cayenne pepper, red chili flakes, or chili powder is used to heat up the spell, burn the recipient, and sew general discord and discomfort. Poppy seeds, on the other hand, sew discord between people, making it difficult to come to an agreement. Whole cloves, which look like pins, are used to prick and poke, making the recipient uncomfortable, as well as to tear down their walls, making them susceptible to the curse. This is all then wrapped five times with twine or black yarn to fully bind the person from causing further harm. Black is associated with banishment and binding, while the number five is associated with discord, struggle, and conflict.

The bound lemon is then placed in a jar to contain and stop the recipient's actions further. It's covered in vinegar to further sour their life, while the three pins or nails prick and poke, the wasp/wasp nest stings, Spanish moss sends bad luck, and the black onyx brings mental strife, nightmares, and breaks up relationships and bonds. All of this is sealed in black wax, black yarn, or twine to bind.

By storing the jar in a dark place, you are bringing darkness to the recipient's life, making it difficult for them to see clearly and make decisions. Shaking the jar empowers the spell and promotes turmoil by shaking up whatever plans the recipient had.

Finally, this spell is best performed on the waning or dark moon, which is associated with cursing and binding. However, this spell can be performed during any moon phase. If performing during the waxing or full moon, put more emphasis on bringing something into the person's life, in this case, discord and strife. The great thing about spells is that they can be performed successfully in any moon phase, you just have to get a little creative.

Wish to break this spell? Simply dismantle the spell jar, unbind the lemon, and remove the tag while saying, "This curse is broken. It shall no longer hold sway over [insert name]." Dispose of the remains in the trash.

Remember to record this ritual on your ritual/spell worksheet or in your Book of Shadows for reference later.

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In all of my years of practicing witchcraft, I have only ever cast two curses. Know that I do not take such work lightly, and spend a considerable amount of time weighing my options before taking such actions. Again, I am not a love-and-light witch, nor do I believe in the Rule of Three. I do, however, believe strongly in justice and using the necessary means to fight systems of oppression. I am a Libra after all and I will not sit idly by as our rights are stripped away from us. I hope you won't either as this is so much larger than whether or not abortion should be legal. Stay safe out there.

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Rose & Chocolate Love Potion

Love spells, rituals, and potions are a hotly debated topic in the world of witchcraft. Some witches believe that all love spells, including the one in this post, are wrong as they work against someone's free will. I do not subscribe to that thinking. Instead, I believe love spells, rituals, and potions work on what already exists, but that doesn't necessarily make all love spells ethical. There are certainly situations where manipulating the odds in your favor may not be entirely ethical, but that is for you to decide.

This love spell is designed to ignite passions and promote lust, whether it be in you or your lover. If you are in a relationship, I highly encourage you to drink this sipping chocolate with your lover, with their consent of course. Double the recipe to make enough for two people and serve as a dessert or whenever you are ready to take things to the bedroom. Today being Lupercalia, a pastoral pagan festival celebrated February 15th in Ancient Rome designed to purify and prevent infertility, I can see no better time to partake in this potion. 

What You'll Need

• 1 cup milk of choice (I used creamy oat milk)
• 1 teaspoon rose petals
• 1/4 cup chopped dark chocolate or sipping chocolate (I used French Board Chocolate's Sipping Chocolate)
• 1/2 teaspoon cinnamon
• 1/4 teaspoon chili powder
  
  

What to Do

Combine milk and rose petals in a saucepan and heat until steaming but not boiling. Stir continuously to avoid scorching the milk and do not let it come to a boil. You may need to remove from heat and reheat several times. Allow the milk and rose to infuse for about 5 minutes. Strain and reheat the milk and rose infusion to steaming. Remove from heat and add chocolate, cinnamon, and chili powder. Whisk clockwise to draw love until well combined. As you stir, visualize your intention filling the love potion with pink and red light. Serve warm.

Why You Did It

Understanding the why's of a spell are just as important as performing it. It helps you understand the process so you can modify the spell or ritual to suit your needs and helps guide you to write your own. It's my intention that by providing these explanations, you can build a better understanding of how spells are written and executed so you can modify and build your own spells (the goal of my Spellcraft Series). 

For this spell, we combine milk, rose, chocolate, cinnamon, and chili powder to create a potent love potion. Milk is magically associated with fertility and abundance, as it provides nourishment for growing babies. I personally used oat milk in my potion, which is also associated with fertility and abundance. Roses are the quintessential flower of love and are used to encourage love and lust in this potion. Chocolate, cinnamon, and chili powder are all mild aphrodisiacs, thus promoting sexual energies and lust. Like roses, chocolate is also associated with love, while cinnamon and chili powder add some heat to the spell to spice things up and get your blood pumping.

Wish to break this spell? Unfortunately, this is not a spell to be undone. You have to let it work through your system.

Remember to record this ritual on your ritual/spell worksheet or in your Book of Shadows for reference later.

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I hope everyone has a wonderful Lupercalia, whether you are celebrating alone or with others. May your future be full of love.

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